Frequently Asked Questions
What is a humanist wedding ceremony?
A humanist wedding ceremony is a non-religious ceremony that is completely personalised to you. Unlike traditional ceremonies, there is no set script, allowing you to create something that reflects your relationship, values and story. Humanist weddings are a popular choice for couples looking for a meaningful, inclusive and flexible alternative to traditional ceremonies in the UK.
What does a celebrant do at a wedding?
A celebrant works with you to design and deliver your wedding ceremony. This includes getting to know your story, writing your ceremony, helping you choose readings or symbolic elements, and leading the ceremony on the day. As a celebrant, my role is to create a ceremony that feels personal, relaxed and meaningful.
Can we include our own vows, readings or traditions?
Yes, absolutely. One of the main benefits of a humanist ceremony is the flexibility to include anything that feels meaningful to you. This can include personal vows, readings, music, cultural traditions or symbolic gestures such as handfasting or candle lighting.
What is a naming ceremony?
A naming ceremony is a non-religious way to celebrate a child, welcome them into a family, or mark an important moment of identity. It can include promises, readings, music and the involvement of family or guiding adults, creating a meaningful and personal celebration.
Where are you based and do you travel?
I’m based in Wimbledon in South West London and regularly work across UK and worldwide. I’m very happy to travel anywhere for your ceremony.
Are humanist weddings legally binding in the UK?
In England and Wales, humanist wedding ceremonies are not currently legally binding, so most couples choose to complete the legal paperwork separately at a registry office. Many couples find this allows them to focus on creating a truly personal and memorable ceremony without restrictions.
How much does a humanist wedding celebrant cost?
As every ceremony I create is completely bespoke, the cost can vary depending on your plans and what you’d like to include. I spend time getting to know you, writing a ceremony that truly reflects your story, and delivering it in a way that feels warm, personal and memorable. If you’d like to find out more, please get in touch and I’d be very happy to chat through your ideas and provide a quote.
Do you offer LGBTQ+ wedding ceremonies?
Yes. I specialise in inclusive ceremonies and regularly work with LGBTQ+ couples. Every ceremony is created to feel safe, affirming and reflective of your relationship, with no assumptions about language, roles or traditions.
What is a trans naming ceremony?
A trans naming ceremony is a personal and affirming way to celebrate a name and identity that truly reflects who you are. These ceremonies are shaped entirely around the individual and can be a powerful moment of recognition, support and celebration with the people who matter most.
How far in advance should we book a celebrant?
It’s best to book as early as possible, especially for peak wedding season dates. However, it’s always worth getting in touch, even if your ceremony is sooner, as I may still have availability.